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As a follow up to the stupid things PUA's do, here are some of the dumb things players do. Although players have more game than PUA's, they still do stupid shit sometimes. But yeah, here are some of the mistakes I've consistently noticed:
Hit on a woman's friend
Dude, if you're talking to one girl, don't hit on her friend. How fucking stupid are you? Women talk to each other. And the instant they realize that you're hitting on the both of them, you're done. Two women hitting on you is totally different than you hitting on the two of them.
Overdo the alcohol
Why is it that when a guy is unsure of whether or not the chick is into him, he decides that drinking more alcohol is going to make her like him? Personally, I like to drink. However, once I start talking to women, I slow down, and if I'm pretty sure that a chick is into me, I stop completely.
And don't try to be "the man" and start calling out people about how you can out-drink them in front of women. If a girl challenges you to drinking, it's one thing, but if you're going out of your way to show everyone that you're the man, women are not going to be turned on, AT ALL.
Try to be a macho man
If you feel like you have to fight to defend yourself, then OK. But if you're one of those guys that likes to go out of his way to start fights for no logical reason, then no one is going to like being around you. And even then, you need to get over the petty shit and walk away. Learn to chill the fuck out. Everything is not worth fighting over.
Ignore your friends
I've seen a lot of guys do this in front of women. They are so focused on the girl that their friends do not matter. They ignore their friends when they walk up to them, and they ignore when their friends are drunk and obviously need help getting home. You don't gotta spend a lot of time talking to them, but you should at least acknowledge that they're there and get them some help if they need it.
When a woman sees how you ignore your friends and show absolutely no consideration for their well-being, then she's going to question your character, and chances are, you're going to lose her.
Develop a BIG EGO around women
I know what I look like, but I don't go around telling women that I'm hot. It goes back to that bragging principle I mentioned in another post. Yes, you may look good, but it's a turn off when you brag about it, or anything else for that matter.
It's in your best interests to just remain humble. Otherwise, even if you are hot, women are going to be turned off by your ego and walk away. Keep that in mind.